We're splitting up - what are the first steps I need to take?
You and your spouse have had that last big fight, or that sad final conversation, and you've realized that the relationship is over. What steps do you need to take now? 1. Consider whether it's possible to save the relationship. Is marriage counseling a possibility? It's not appropriate in situations where there is domestic violence or any other safety issue. It also requires a commitment to work on the marriage from both spouses, so it's not appropriate in a case where y