We're splitting up - what are the first steps I need to take?
You and your spouse have had that last big fight, or that sad final conversation, and you've realized that the relationship is over. What steps do you need to take now? 1. Consider whether it's possible to save the relationship. Is marriage counseling a possibility? It's not appropriate in situations where there is domestic violence or any other safety issue. It also requires a commitment to work on the marriage from both spouses, so it's not appropriate in a case where y
If I leave the family home, do I give up all my rights?
No, you don't lose all rights just because you leave the home. This is a common myth. If things are escalating, and the situation in the home is volatile and potentially dangerous, you need to protect yourself. Do, however, seek legal advice as soon as possible, in order to protect your rights, make arrangements for any children and avoid any confusion about your intentions. You also cannot claim certain rights, such as the right to an equalization payment, after a certain
